His- stories and Her-stories!

 

Personal His-stories and Her-stories

 

When we were a baby we cried often.

 

Most parents think there is a reason for this, that we need to be fed, changed, comforted or loved.

 

And all of these maybe true.

 

But more importantly, you as a soul have arrived in a big place with lots of emptiness and unknown -ness that is often filled with energies of those you love, but also those you don’t know, don’t like the look of or feel unconnected or threatened by. This experience called living seems overwhelming and scary.

 

So how do you cope?

 

You cry. You cry your sound out into the world so that you know that in the mad world of other people’s energies you exist. For if you didn’t hear your own sound, could not vibrate with it, you would feel lost and may give up being here altogether.

 

This is the first step of creating our personal his-story or her-story. Where we have been becomes the familiar that we visit in order to feel comfortable about ourselves.

In time when our stories start to fill with sorrow and disappointment we rewrite our stories subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) changing details so that the reality of what happened can match the dream that we had intended for ourselves.

 

The problem with doing this though is there is so little space for new dreams to come into being because the patterns of the past mean that we create more of what we would like to change about our lives (i.e. we create the same problems) when what we really want to create is what we want – which is a change of view.

 

Personal his-stories and her-stories and our attachment to them become a noose around our neck that burdens us with limitations in the present.

 

We need to be free to experience life in each moment, creating it as we go and following the flow of love. To do this with ease and grace means to let go of our attachment to the past.

 

Being able to look at photos and mementos of your life and not recognise them as you now but from another time, almost as though they were a completely different being is a sign that you have accepted the truth of time.

For in this moment you are a completely different being from the ‘you’ of yesterday or year.

 

Become selective in what you tell people about who you are.

 

When you meet someone new decide on a personal his-story day – a time to tell your tales about you. Answer any questions that are brought forward from the telling with the wisdom of hindsight – and then never mention them again.

 

They have no true bearing on your present and even less on your future unless you wish to repeat your patterns all over again.

 

Journal your story up to the end of last year and then at the end off each year that passes add an entry- creating a snapshot of that year and then let it go.

 

It is more important that you recognise yourself as love than you recognise your personality or identity.

 

An adult does not need to hear herself in the world to know she exists, for as an adult she knows she is the ‘I AM’ present – nothing else of her-story is relevant unless the I Am energy of love embraces it.

 

Trust in love and BE.

 

Nothing more is asked of you.

 

This is an excerpt from 

 ’Soul Talk – How to share your wisdom with those you love.’

By Melody R. Green.

 

You will find it at www.amazon.com

 

 

Female

Female

Congratulations! You have chosen to be a woman.

 

You are the energy of yin, receptive, intuitive, emotionally perceptive and expressive.

 

In your life time you may choose to experience the roles of daughter, sister, aunt, mother, lover, friend, confidante, companion, carer, high priestess, comforter, holder of your tribe’s history, widow, spinster or crone. Career woman, superwoman, goddess, siren or whore.

 

All roles are open to you and you may take on more than one and multiple roles at once, as is your choice.

 

Enjoy your femininity.

 

Embrace all of your being.

 

Revel in being a woman.

 

For this was your choosing.

 

 

 

This excerpt is from

 

“Soul Talk – How to share your wisdom with those you love”

By Melody R. Green.

It is available from www.amazon.com

 

 

Male

Male

 

Congratulations! You have chosen to be a man.

 

You are the energy of Yang, active, logical, outwardly motivated and expressive.

 

In your lifetime you may choose to experience the roles of son, boy, brother, uncle, father, lover, friend, mate, companion, provider, high priest, carer, creator of your tribes history, creator of the ‘rules’ by which your tribe lives, widower, bachelor, hermit, wise man, career man, superman, God, Adonis, pimp or whore.

 

Enjoy your masculinity.

 

Embrace all of your being.

 

Revel in being a man.

 

For this was of your choosing.

This excerpt was from

” Soul Talk – How to share your wisdom with those you love”.

By Melody R. Green

You will find it at : www.amazon.com

First Choice

First Choice

We made the first choice in this world of duality when we chose to be a man or a woman and have a life experience.

 

But the first step to understanding that you are one, you are whole is to realise that you exist because your shadow side does as well. It is not in opposition to you but acts as a foil for the light of you to shine.

 

Let me explain. If you have incarnated as a male – your shadow side is your inner female and vice versa.

 

This shadow side is where you filter your unconscious thoughts, beliefs and then respond to them with your emotions and actions.

 

Often the shadow will hold your heritage – the patterning you have agreed to be this lifetime – your non-physical DNA if you like. The impact of this DNA is profound. It acts as a magnet to attract experiences to you so that you can find out or become conscious of your thoughts and feelings.

 

It is only when you begin the journey to consciousness that you will understand the concept of choice and co-creation of your personal version of the universe.

 

Most people choose to learn this through pain and suffering, but it could so easily be learned through joy and delight. Those who have been avatars or guiding lights through humanity’s history have tried to instill in their followers this understanding.

 

Even in this there is choice. The choice does not always lie with the event that happens to us (although through past actions we can influence these events.)

Where real choice lies, where our point of absolute power sits,

is in our choice of how we react to the event.

 

Hence we may have two people who have had their belongings stolen. Person A may react in fear and victim-hood demanding retribution whereas Person B may philosophically shrug their shoulders and say that they were glad to be of service to the thief. For the thief obviously had more need of their goods than they did.

 

These are of course extreme responses and the reality is often more complex than has been illustrated here, but the essence of the example remains.

We are always at a point of choice.

 

You may take all that is written here seriously and studiously and even questioningly

OR

You may approach it all with light-heartedness.

 

This too is your choice!

 

All is valid.

A heart that is filled with light knows love and

a mind that is serious and contemplative accesses wisdom.

 

What glorious gifts!

 

Who could want more?

 

For this is truth – that all routes of your individual journey bring you to who you already are – Love and wisdom.

 

There is nothing else.

 

Until next time

Bless-sings

Melody

PS If you enjoyed this and other blogs you will find them in my latest book –

Soul Talk -How to share your wisdom with those you love  – available from www.amazon.com