Female

Female

Congratulations! You have chosen to be a woman.

 

You are the energy of yin, receptive, intuitive, emotionally perceptive and expressive.

 

In your life time you may choose to experience the roles of daughter, sister, aunt, mother, lover, friend, confidante, companion, carer, high priestess, comforter, holder of your tribe’s history, widow, spinster or crone. Career woman, superwoman, goddess, siren or whore.

 

All roles are open to you and you may take on more than one and multiple roles at once, as is your choice.

 

Enjoy your femininity.

 

Embrace all of your being.

 

Revel in being a woman.

 

For this was your choosing.

 

 

 

This excerpt is from

 

“Soul Talk – How to share your wisdom with those you love”

By Melody R. Green.

It is available from www.amazon.com

 

 

Male

Male

 

Congratulations! You have chosen to be a man.

 

You are the energy of Yang, active, logical, outwardly motivated and expressive.

 

In your lifetime you may choose to experience the roles of son, boy, brother, uncle, father, lover, friend, mate, companion, provider, high priest, carer, creator of your tribes history, creator of the ‘rules’ by which your tribe lives, widower, bachelor, hermit, wise man, career man, superman, God, Adonis, pimp or whore.

 

Enjoy your masculinity.

 

Embrace all of your being.

 

Revel in being a man.

 

For this was of your choosing.

This excerpt was from

” Soul Talk – How to share your wisdom with those you love”.

By Melody R. Green

You will find it at : www.amazon.com

Complexity – What?

Hello there

 

Today I have a question:

Is love still LOVE when it is couched in criticism or negativity?

 

Today I heard the story about a friend of mine (let’s call her Jane) who is constantly being berated by another friend of hers (let’s call her Mary), for being clumsy.

Now I have known Jane for many years and while she is not graceful in all she does, I do not find her clumsy in my company, yet Mary finds her so.

When I quizzed Jane more deeply on the dynamic of her friendship with Mary she told me that Mary is always premising her remarks with – ‘I’m only telling you this because I love you and care for you!’

So what does this dynamic mean?

What kind of relationship do they have?

Is Mary expressing love?

Is the love valuable and beneficial for Jane to experience?

And are Mary’s actions integrated with her words of love?

 

Love is not simple is it?  As an ideal it may be but in reality is it?

Surely in this Jane/Mary dynamic there are some other expressions that are impinging on any love that Jane may be feeling from Mary?

It leads me to think that love is not simple but extremely complex when viewed through the dynamics of words and actions.

So maybe the best way to judge the truth of love is to be still and silent

and see how the love from the person in questions feels.

 

Do you feel happy, upset, angry, disempowered, reduce to less than yourself?

Does being loved bring you a great sense of peace and joy?

If not – what are you doing in this relationship you are in?

Why are you staying in it? what else do you get from  it - if it is not love?

See, I told you these thoughts were complex!

But, if you are unwilling to answer the tough questions, then you are unwilling to experience a deeper understanding of love.

What do you think?

 

Till next time

In love and peace

Melody